Who knows where thoughts come from? They hit you in the strangest places, in my case, while I'm a taking bath. What questions, you ask?

1. WHY is there such a thing as attraction?
I mean, not one night stand attractions , a stronger bond that incorporates all factors. So essentially the question is, why do humans get attached to one another? Procreation? We can do that with one night stands.
Company? Friends and acquaintances.
SO.....the question remains unanswered.

2. I watched Dr Phil today, there was this couple with the woman complaining that the man is a slob. Now we all have our things, we're all a bit sloppy to some extent. But this guy was beyond description. He admitted that he rarely showers or brushes his teeth, when he changes the baby's nappy he leaves it right there on the floor ; the wife says she can smell him before she can see him because he;s so damn dirty.
The man's response? The wife should pick up his mess and not reject him in bed.
ERR.......how can he expect that she'll do the nasty with him if he's so damn disgusting?? I'd sure as hell not touch him.

AND its a scientific fact that arousal has alot to do with pheromones excreted by the opposite sex. So your sense of smell plays a very big role in all of that. Personally, tis one of my weaknesses. Some scents wreak havoc on my self-control. But I'll leave it on that. Feel free to comment on any of this late-nite banter.